Dilemna

June 29, 2006 at 12:40 pm 11 comments

Ok, like I totally decided it was time for a sex and the cityesque posting. I’m kinda like writing loads of really serious and big-worded stuff at the moment in my office and so I feel that my brain cells have like totally melted down and all that will come out is like cute and pink thoughts.

But once again I am discovering I am old – I can’t keep up speaking like that for more than 2 seconds! What a change from the days when my friends and I could quote the entire film ‘Clueless’ to each other.

But on a light and fluffy note, I am having a problem. I might be going to a party tomorrow night. Why is that a problem? Because if I go, I’ll be going with the man (which I guess might mean he really is my man rather than the man – but that’s a whole other story…) and at this party will also be his ex-wife. And all their shared friends. Who I haven’t met before.

So what is the problem? Obviously, it’s what do I wear?!

Being a typical girl, I asked my friends for assistance and they have split into 2 camps.

Camp 1 – go for the sophisticated look. Clever, composed and classy.
Camp 2 – go for the hot and sexy look.

What do you reckon??

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Entry filed under: On dating and relationships or lack there of, On socialising and partying.

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11 Comments Add your own

  • 1. Mad Bull  |  June 30, 2006 at 10:01 am

    If she wasn’t going to be there, how would you have dressed? Go like that. Thats my opinion.

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  • 2. Dennis  |  June 30, 2006 at 11:46 am

    I agree with Mad Bull…however, the presence of the Ex and their friends does change the dynamics of the situation. Because you are his new lady this will automatically put you under the critical eyes of his friends and Ex. If you dress hot and sexy you run the risk of the critics saying you look too provovative (if u know what I mean). But if you dress more sophisticated what can they say? That you look too classy and smart? Camp 1 wins my vote.

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  • 3. Beaver  |  June 30, 2006 at 12:20 pm

    I’m with Dennis. Smart, clever, classy and sophisticated are a winner !

    Just be your sensationnal self and have fun !

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  • 4. cream  |  June 30, 2006 at 1:16 pm

    Go halfway and dress sophisticatedly sexy or sexily sophisticated…
    How’s that?

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  • 5. Kingston Girl  |  June 30, 2006 at 2:43 pm

    Hmmm, shopping might be called for. Hopefuly inspiration will hit then – otherwise, I’ll just have to bowl them all over with my witty conversation!

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  • 6. Shotta M  |  July 1, 2006 at 10:05 am

    Good luck choosing. I say blur the lines of sexy and sophisticated. And as you said, most importantly blow them away with witty conversation.

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  • 7. CoolDestiny  |  July 1, 2006 at 1:20 pm

    I’m with Camp One. I probably wouldn’t go to the party though.

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  • 8. Dr. D.  |  July 2, 2006 at 10:51 am

    You can dress sophisticated and sexy at the same time, yhough it may take abit of looking around to find the right outfit.

    If in doubt, you could always ask him how he would prefer you to attire yourself.

    Don’t allow the presence of Ex and friends to put you off. You never tief nobody man. Dem divorced now. And, be yourself.

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  • 9. Ri  |  July 4, 2006 at 10:43 am

    I hope you chose Camp 2. Let us know how it went.

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  • 10. Gela's Words  |  July 4, 2006 at 7:46 pm

    I’m so surprised to see guys weighing in on this. Nice.

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  • 11. Guyana-Gyal  |  July 5, 2006 at 5:55 am

    I hope you had fun no matter what you wore 🙂

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